LoveHasWon Special Message~The Myth of Adulting
LoveHasWon Special Message~The Myth of Adulting
By Archeia Aurora & Archeia Hope of The First Contact Ground Crew Team
As humans, we are taught at a certain age that “we are not children anymore”. We inevitably get pushed into being “adults” and with that, comes many pre-programmed and conditioned responses and masks we must put on in order to survive in the adult world. We are taught to harden ourselves, to put our feelings aside in the name of rational thought, and to see everything as a problem rather than an experience.
Children in their natural state are loving, open, creative, intuitive, and full feeling. Children do not have the same mental constructs that adults have because they are in their natural state of wonder and acceptance. They are vulnerable and sensitive but also full of joy and laughter. At some point, we are told to “grow up”. The implications of this put a limitation on these natural states and forces the child to go against their natural inclinations. This is when EGO fully comes in and takes over. We grow up and are told to fear everything and to overanalyze and worry about what has yet to happen. We are taught to mistrust the world we live in.
The worst part of the “adult” programming is that everything becomes limited rather than expansive. If you were to ask a child what their favorite color is, they will probably tell you 6 different colors. If you ask them who their best friend is, they will likely not be able to choose just one. Their love is open and endless and they struggle to narrow it down the way programmed adults do. They don’t understand why they cannot have ice cream and cake and chicken nuggets, why do they have to choose one?
The EGO mind can only create limitations, it does not have the ability to expand. Therefore, the child is taught they can only love one thing, one person, one toy, etc. We teach them that love is singular and attached to something specific. The damage this causes the child is beyond comprehension until the child grows up and we begin to see how this attached-love creates massive dysfunction. Children begin attaching to people, places, and things as adults do because they are taught that these specific things are for them and themselves only. Children are not taught properly, being shown that everything and everyone is One, and there is no ownership of anything.
The truth is that we are ALL children. The concept of “growing up” and “adulting” is an EGO concept. Now, there is a difference between childish behavior and child like essence. The childish behavior is actually the dysfunction created by forcing us to try and put on an adult mask. The being is still child like inside but has been so hardened and conditioned to mask their inner essence, they often resort to childish behavior because they have not properly integrated that aspect of themselves. Those who have not experienced full childlike wonder, or have had it taken away from them via the ego programming choose childish behaviors because they do not know how to respond properly to certain situations or their environment. Teaching children to embrace their childlike wonder rather than covering it up or masking it allows the creativity to keep flowing even after children grow up.
All humans are child-like at heart. We seek the same things children do~love, joy, expression, play, imagination. The problem with adulting is that it robs us of everything that makes our souls fulfilled. We become beings who hide our feelings in fear that we will be judged, rejected or ridiculed for it. So, we stuff down our emotions causing internal dysfunction that leads to control dramas, manipulation, projection, etc. We favor “responsibility” over joy and we get stuck in an endless cycle of seeking outside validation rather than self-love. Due to the trauma we have experienced as children we lose touch with our feelings because we are taught that is the way to handle them. By not processing the feelings properly they get stored in our bodies, only to manifest as alignments in the future. If children are taught at a young age to express their feelings and properly process their emotions, they will thrive in years to come because they are transforming rather than keeping the energy stagnant in their bodies.
In truth, all beings on this Earth have one wish and that is to love, to be loved, and to be in joy. However, because of the adult programming, we run around in massive amounts of pain, trying to fill our voids with external possessions and external validation. We hurt one another because we are hurt and we have no idea how to properly heal ourselves. We have no idea that it is okay to be our true child-like essence. Children are not taught how to properly love themselves, so as adults they go around searching for something or someone external to fill the void. Once we realize that loving ourselves fully heals all, we will be able to mirror that pure unconditional love to others. This will assist others in healing as well because they will see an example of someone who loves themselves fully, and they will shown how to do the same.
Once we become aware of how much damage we have done to ourselves it does become our responsibility to heal it. Begin to see the world as a child would, with endless wonder and seeing things as miracles and experiences rather than labeling and categorizing them. Start feeling your way through your journey rather than thinking and analyzing. Do things that bring you joy rather than what you are told to do. Do not be afraid to be soft, tender and vulnerable. Be the love that that you are and release all of the social constructs that have destroyed the true essence of love. Adulting is a myth, and one that has created a collective of damaged souls all running around in search of love in all the wrong places.
Mother of All Creation is the ultimate being of child like essence. She is strong, compassionate, loving, courageous, and full of joy. She created us all as Her, we are Her and She is us. The separation wound comes from the idea that we have to grow up and become robotic individuals. You can only connect to your heart and to Mother if you are in a child like state. Tap into your diamond heart and return back to your original essence, One with Source.
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