The Emergence of the Mature Feminine in Each of Us
By Sophie Gregoire, 06/21/2017
While the dreamy Queen of Cups falls in love with dreams, with the idea of love, with majestic potentials and possible Kings –
The Mature Feminine loves what actually is and studies the balanced ‘can they love me back’, she feels and discerns to what extent people are available and doesn’t get involved more than what the outside can give.
Sometimes, the Dreamy Queen of Cups chooses to blame others because they eventually weren’t the dreams she had painted about them in her room,
While the Mature Feminine sees what actually is and only goes there if this feels right, therefore exploring reality rather than fantasy, and owning full responsibility of herself.
Let me explain this further.
There is a wounded Feminine, soft Cancerian lover in each of us.
Remember. There are those people, and a specific one above all — that we loved, admired, saw differently, adored, placed on a pedestal, longed for but they didn’t gave us love as we thought they would.
They disappointed us, abandoned us, run away – so it seems.
Is that true? I’m wondering.
Seeing that we, the wounded, pure, white Feminine part – we had placed so much weight and hope in an outside situation; we had offered, gave, surrendered our hearts to someone else.
And they became, somewhere in our minds, responsible of our golden future – the reason why, the safety net, what needed to happen because if it didn’t but, then what?!
That would be death. We had given all of our Heart, meaning, sense for our lives, destinies, path, Solar plexuseven sometimes to “this” so it NEEDED to be or we were doomed.
Is that true?
The lessons, the teachers.
The heart needed to adore that much to be cracked open so majestically, fiercely. We needed to see that placing so much hope and responsibility outside of ourselves is unhealthy.
We needed to learn the hard way that only What Is exists, that people are the way they are and that this desire to see others change, be what we wanted them to be to make US happy,
Was unhealthy, wounded, young, immature?
Wasn’t even respecting their own soul journey, their own free will.
A mature individual is never abandoned, as they never abandon themselves.
Have they abandoned us, failed, behaved wrongly OR was it us, by refusing to see the truth, that abandoned ourselves there, conspiring against their own free will and the Universe law and forcing the dreamed splendor of a happy ending?
The lessons are learned. The heart was cracked open. Brutally yes, and more and more in time too as we never gave up.
Inner power was lost for awhile in the tears of songs that would never be heard anymore.
The sense of self faded, deleted, bruised because we had decided that we actually were that dream. We were a movie stopped, frozen in the middle of it, so if the movie doesn’t unfold but WHO were we?
Beauty ran away too, you see. Because are we beautiful if the dream, the King doesn’t make love to us as a Queen.
Love became that. The dream of love, even, became the novel of a watery Failure.
We became that dream because we had given all to it… but the dream became the night so we became the darkness too. We were the water, the defeated hopes of when Imagination and the way we perceive people’s potentials… don’t match with Who They Are, and with Reality.
Let’s now move from judgment to mercy, from blaming them for not being who we wanted them to be TO unconditional love, acceptance of everyone’s journey and self-honesty about the clarity that we once couldn’t have.
People are they way they are, and we can love them as exactly as they are even if it’s not what we thought – when our joy is found Within.
We can relate with people based on what they are even if it’s not what we thought — when we didn’t offer our hearts to them before, offered and gave and offered it again, even when that was left unanswered, majestic ritual, martyrdom of “love kills”.
The Mature Feminine is aware and sees clearly people and mates for who they are.
The mature Feminine sees people for who they are and understands, feels, senses how available people are, where their walls are and what they are able to give.
She doesn’t dive into things “hoping that x”.
She doesn’t melt with the dream of them. She shows up in a shared reality.
She doesn’t lose herself in case, who knows, a magician could transform the movie Prince into a relationship.
She draws her boundaries based on what she sees.
She loves them yes, but as she loves herself too, she doesn’t abandon herself for anyone especially for dreams.
The lessons are learned.
The wounded Feminine is older, more mature, wiser, healed.
The Feminine is within all of us.
Love wasn’t that.
That, was a lesson.
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